Parenting a Parent

Caring for an aging parent can feel overwhelming and emotional, but planning and support can make the process more manageable.

Caring for an aging parent can feel overwhelming and emotional, but planning and support can make the process more manageable.

A Changing Family Role

Adult children may gradually begin helping with appointments, finances, transportation, meals and household tasks. The change can be emotional for everyone involved.

Respect Independence

Help should not automatically mean taking over. Include your parent in decisions and preserve as much control as possible over daily life.

Talk Before There Is a Crisis

Discuss health wishes, finances, emergency contacts, living arrangements and home safety while everyone can participate calmly.

Divide Responsibilities

One family member should not have to do everything. Siblings and relatives can share tasks based on time, location and ability.

Watch for Safety Issues

Falls, medication mistakes, missed appointments, driving concerns and difficulty with personal care can signal that more support is needed.

Accept Outside Help

Home-care workers, meal programs, transportation services and community organizations can reduce pressure on the family.

Take Care of the Caregiver

Caregiving can be exhausting. Breaks, boundaries and support are necessary to make the arrangement sustainable.